Wednesday, December 9, 2009

New Computer

Several of the blogs I read are giving away a brand new HP Touchsmart 600, and I have a chance to win it! I'd advise you to enter, but that would lessen my chances, though it would be very cool if we both won one! What would you do with it? It looks really cool! You can check it out at several places...

http://boomama.net/hp-touchsmart-600-giveaway
www.mycharmingkids.net
http://www.kellyskornerblog.com/
http://nienie-reviews.blogspot.com/2009/12/hp-touchsmart-giveaway_09.html
and
http://totallytogetherreviews.blogspot.com/2009/12/hp-touchsmart-computer-review-and-give.html

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Okay, Where did October go?

Who stole October? It's November already, and almost a third of the way through it! Ugh!

I've been taking things one day at a time lately, as it seems that's the only way I can do things and still focus on what I need to be focusing on. (And even that isn't accurate... I'm supposed to be doing homework right now...)

We had a great Halloween. Charlotte was Cinderella, and Joshua was a rock star. It was decided at the last minute that is what he would be. We tossed around several options and that's what we finally came up with, by default actually. He was originally going to be "daddy" for Halloween, because that's what he said he wanted. So I had this idea that I would get him a shirt, and embroider "daddy" on it, put him in some jeans, find a broom and one of those trash recepticle things on a stick (I know you know what I mean!) and then he'd be on his way. Only I couldn't find the trash thing... :( I was bummed. I did find this really cool guitar though and a cool shirt, so we put our microphone headset for the computer on him and his guitar, cowboy hat, boots and a cool pair of jeans, spiked his hair and called it good! Charlotte's dress from her birthday served as her Halloween costume (that was planned back in June when I made it originally), and off we went to the Harvest Festival/Trunk or Treat at the church. My mom went with us and we had a great time. It was a little chaotic, because there were about 3000 people there (throughout the night, but probably 1500 or so when we were there), but we managed. I refuse to go to that thing by myself. Hopefully next year Chris will be working days and he can go with us!

We also went to Bishops Pumpkin farm a week before Halloween and had a blast. The kids really enjoyed playing in the hay, petting the animals, sitting on large pumpkins, and riding the train. We stayed away from some of the more child-popular activities since it was pretty crowded by the time we were getting ready to go, but enjoyed ourselves nonetheless.

Chris and I were able to attend a David Crowder Band concert in Sacramento with an amazing group of friends. I am so lucky to serve on a youth staff with some great people, and most of us were able to attend the show. It was a ton of fun, and DCB puts on a great show. Thanks to my friend who bought my ticket as I was originally just going to send Chris. Can I share again how great my friends are?!?

School is going well for me. I'm in the middle of probably my toughest term this year. I'm taking 3 graduate level courses right now at the same time which has me quite busy. I am focusing on one day at a time right now, between school, family, work, ministries, sleep, my house, etc. God is doing amazing things though and I'm privileged to be a part of it all.

We've started a Biggest Loser Challenge with a group of friends and family. I'm excited to say that in four weeks (we weigh in for week 5 tomorrow) the group of us has lost nearly 200 pounds!!! That's AMAZING! My husband has been working out and has lost an incredible 31.2 pounds so far (not including what he's lost this week!). I'm so proud of him and he's looking great. I've not lost that much. I have lost about 10 pounds though, which is my goal for each month between now and next summer. I'm going to try and step it up a little bit more though and try and lose more. I'm so proud of this group. We're continuing until the first of the year and then we'll probably open up a new challenge for those that want to continue. It's a great motivator, and the extra support is always nice for encouragement and resources.

Alright, I've got to get back to my homework. I just wanted to pop in and let you know that we're still here and going along. There's not that much exciting to blog about, though I've been feeling the need for awhile. Perhaps when life slows down :P LOL.

Love you all!

Heidi, Chris, Charlotte and Joshua

Monday, September 7, 2009

September

Hi friends... okay... crickets... since I'm fairly sure that most, if not all my "followers" have stopped doing just that for my lack of posting.

So much new in our world, yet nothing terribly earth-shaking.

I've started school and am already at midterm time for my first bunch of classes. I have been pretty bored with my classes, being that my B.S. degree is in education, not just some random degree. I have a gentleman in one of my classes that has his B.S. in aeronautical engineering (or something equally similar, he explained it as basically equivalent to basket-weaving in space... LOL), who is probably getting a lot out of these classes because they are so entry level into education. Oh well, perhaps the wisdom I have can be shared to him and to others in the class. That's how I'm getting through it anyway. I am REALLY looking forward to getting this stuff done so that I can get into my own classroom. Next year! I have also started looking for a "placement" for my student teaching. My friend Lori has a fourth grade classroom that I will probably do my upper-grades student teaching in, so I'm looking for a lower grades placement to work in now. I'm really hoping (praying) for a long-term substitute position that I can do instead of my student teaching, for financial reasons. A semester plus the summer without any sort of income on my end, while still paying childcare is a LONG time... and unless I win the lottery or something... but I'm trusting that God will provide as I know that he will.

Joshua is growing by leaps and bounds. He is talking so much now and we're seriously working on potty training. He finally went the other day at preschool in the toilet, but has yet to do so here at home. We're still working on it though! I think by the time he's three he'll have it down! Yay! He has such a sweet personality. He's lately decided that he's our "beff frend". I love that he thinks his mommy and daddy are his best friends. I hope that he continues to feel that close to us. That is not to say that we feel the same way. While I love my children and want to be one of their best friends, I realize that I am their parent, not their friend. I will continue to draw that line until their grown and out of the house, when I hope that the "friendship" comes to full fruition. We tease all the time that Joshua is going to be a worship leader or rockstar. I came into the playroom the other day to see this:

Hilarious. He is too funny. He was using the basketball hoop as a microphone and singing into it while playing his guitar. Way to go dude! You are sooo cool!

Charlotte continues to develop her teenage-girl attitude, yet she continues to whine like her 4 year old self. If anyone has any ideas on how to break that I'd love to hear them. I'm out of ideas... and fed up with the whine/attitude combo. I'm sure I'll have to just deal with it and pray that she'll grow out of it, but in the meantime, I'm pulling my hair out, and she's spending a lot of time in the corner. Poor us. See example below:

Other than that, we're all good here. Chris is back to his regular schedule at work, and I've been subbing a bit and keeping busy with school and ministry opportunities. I've been working with our youth group and am super excited that we'll be going on a missions trip next summer. I can't reveal the location yet, as details are still being worked out, but suffice it to say, I'm going to need a new bathing suit!

We did start painting the kitchen today, it's not finished, but I'll put up pictures as soon as we get it finished, probably next week.

Take care crickets! Until next time!

The Rameys

Thursday, August 6, 2009

A Break in the Madness!

Okay, so it's not really madness around here, but I'm hoping that it will be in a couple of weeks. Really though, there hasn't been much going on, so I've been pretty quiet on here.

I'm in the middle of getting ready for everything to jump into overdrive. School starts for me on August 18th, school starts for subbing on August 17th (I'm praying for a long-term placement), MOPS starts the first week in September. Chris changes schedules again at the school on the 17th and has applied for a job at a different school and interviews for that on the 10th. So he may be changing schools in the midst of all of this as well.

The kids continue to plug along, growing and developing at a pace that exceeds my wildest dreams. Joshua is talking so much now. Tonight he told Chris, "No daddy, don't drink my milk!" It was perfectly clear and you can tell he's trying so hard to express himself with words. It's great fun! Charlotte is coming into her personality. She is so anxious to be the center of attention all of the time. It's maddening and hilarious at the same time. Sometimes I think she's not 4, but rather 14, because she says the strangest things, and has quite the attitude. She's convinced she is a princess, and that it's her birthday (still). I think I may be creating a monster! She's going to be quite the handful when she gets to her teenage years.

That's about all for now, I'll update more later. I have to go make ice cream!

Heidi

Monday, July 20, 2009

It's Official!!!

Just a quick note...

It's official and they can't take it away!!! I got an e-mail tonight notifying me that my B.S. degree in Education with a minor in psychology was conferred today. I'm officially a college graduate!!! And to make things even better, it's with honors! Woo!

Hope this finds everyone well. Thanks again for all of your support through the years. Know that I love you! For those of you still in school, keep working hard in order to graduate. I look forward to celebrating with you when your time comes!!! Keep up the great work!

Heidi

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

3 in 3... this is getting better!!!

I'm making a conscious effort to start blogging every day. I enjoy the outlet, and it's nice to keep you all updated on things around here.

I don't think I mentioned the other day that Chris and Charlotte have an eye appointment on Monday. Apparently, when I was at camp, Charlotte failed her eye exam at her 4 year old check up. I got the notice in the mail that said she has 20/40 vision, so they're sending her to an optometrist to have a more thorough exam. Her original appointment was scheduled for yesterday, but because I know my daughter is most likely going to freak out because it is a new situation for her and new setting, I went ahead and cancelled the appointment and scheduled a new appointment with our family eye doctor. Chris was due for an appointment anyway and that will allow her to see him have it done first, so that it is a little less unfamilliar for her. We'll see. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that we don't have major meltdown. Should be a great time!!! Unlike the time that Joshua was having in this picture:

The cause of Joshua's meltdown you ask???? His friend took the tractor and licked it! I suppose that's one way to claim a toy. Far better to lick it than to smack someone with it. Tough life of two year olds...
We were at the park last week and I was able to take some pictures of the kids. I haven't put pictures up in awhile, so here you go!
Whew... like my cutie-patootie son... I'm exhausted!
May you be blessed on your Wednesday (or whatever day you read this!)

Heidi

Monday, July 13, 2009

Encouragement

I get so many people who tell me they do not know how I do everything that I do. The short answer is I don't. God has given me opportunities to use the very gifts He has given me, and I have been blessed to serve Him in every way I can.

I was reminded of this during my MOPS retreat this weekend. In our curriculum planning for the new year, we were also given a leadership training, and I had the opportunity to view this on Saturday with the amazing women on my team. In short, God is pleased when we use the gifts He has given us in order to serve Him.

I think, as Christians, we are taught to be humble and not proud, and to be very honest I've struggled with that over the past several months as I completed my degree, and did so relatively easy and maintained good grades. Part of me wanted to be pleased with myself for my accomplishments, and part of me knew that I should be humble and not proud. What is the balance there? The answer came this weekend for me. God has given me the talents that I have, and He expects me to use them for His glory. Doing so pleases Him. It would be like me giving you a gift. Do I give it to you so that you can hide it in a closet? Absolutely not. I would want you to be blessed by it, to display it and care for it. The same goes with the gifts God gives us. Those natural talents, abilities and skills, passions and desires are all His gifts to us. We can choose to put them to good use, for His glory, or we can hide them in a closet, ashamed of our natural, God given abilities.

I have recently began to mentor a young lady in our church who desires to sing. She has the God-given talent, but is afraid. In a recent discussion with her, we discussed her fears, and I shared with her the idea that God would want her to share her gift with those around her, and not to let Satan, whom would NOT want her to sing for the glory of her Savior, use her fears for his purposes. Satan would love to see us all hide our gifts in the closet, to protect them from the world, and not use them... ever. He will use whatever tactic works... fear, anger, anxiety, jealousy, pride, etc. And he always does what's easy. He knows what works for you, and for me, and he'll use it every time. For this young lady, it's fear. For me, it was the fear of becoming too prideful.

So, I will be proud of my accomplishments. I work hard for the things that I do, and as long as I realize, and share, that it is not my accomplishments, but rather it is done through an amazing Father, one who loves me despite my fears and failures. He is the King of kings, the Lord of All and I choose to serve Him for all of my days. I pray that you know this Father. The loving, gracious, merciful Father, who sent his Son to die on a cross, a most unfitting death for the King of kings, in order to provide a way for us to spend eternity with the Father in Heaven. If you do not know Jesus as your Lord and Savior, please contact me, or a member of any bible-based church, and we'd love to speak and pray with you.

May you be encouraged to use your gifts that He has given you, in order to glorify God, our Heavenly Father who loves us above all else.

Heidi

Sunday, July 12, 2009

For those who complain...

I know. I know. I KNOW!!! I haven't updated in forever. I'm sorry. Been a little busy. But you should know that.

The last month has been an amazing whirlwind of activity and excitement, and I'm finally sitting down to blog about it.

I think the two biggest announcements are that I passed my CSET, all three sections!!! Thanks for all of your supportive encouragement you all shared. The second big announcement is that I'm finished with school. For now. I finished up my Bachelor's of Science degree in Education on the 6th of July. I finished my last final that day and am waiting anxiously for the degree conferral and my degree to come in the mail. I'm super excited about it, and am pretty sure that I'm graduating with honors. :) We had a get together at my parents to celebrate and had some great friends come by to say Hi!

The week after our birthdays, I had the opportunity to go to Houseboat camp with our youth group. It was an amazing week, and we had a great group of kids. I lived with 10 teenage girls for a week and never once saw an eye-roll. If you have or know teenage girls, you know how amazing that is. I was able to see some great friends get baptized and saw God work in the kids and in the staff as well. I managed to not get too sunburned (that week), and a great time was had by all.

Charlotte and Joshua's last day of preschool for the summer is tomorrow. With me not working and not having school work to do we really can't justify the expense. I know I'm sad for them (and for myself) and I know they'll miss their teachers, but they'll go back in a few weeks, once school starts back up and I'm subbing again!

We're hoping to go out of town for the weekend in a couple of weeks. We'll see how finances are and if we have the time and can get away. Chris and I haven't done anything as a couple away from the kids for an overnight since before Charlotte was born, and it's about time to get away. I know I could use the refresher, and I'm sure that Chris could as well.

I start back to school in August, for my credential program. This will be done here in town instead of online, so I'm trying to get that worked out and will have to get used to being in a classroom instead of able to do my work anytime I want. I'm excited to get that started and finished, though the current state of affairs in California leaves much to be desired for incoming school teachers. I'm guessing my class will be small... I don't know that there will be many people getting into teaching this year. It's not a pretty picture. I trust that God will provide though and we'll figure it out when that time comes. In the meantime, I'm still applying for jobs, hoping to get an internship, though it's unlikely. God knows what He is doing, and I'm trusting that.

Praying for you all.

Heidi

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

A month?!?

It's been a month since I last blogged... okay, over a month. A month of lots of stuff, and yet not really anything. Mostly life as usual. I am a month closer to graduating. Hard to believe that the 3rd of July will be my last day as an undergraduate student, and I will, on that day (if not before) have completed my work to get my Bachelor's degree. It is exciting and awesome, and terrifying.

I am the first person in our immediate (and extended) family to graduate from college (as far as I know). I am humbled by that. I have the opportunity to leave a legacy and want to make sure that I do it right. Am I showing those who come after me that school is important, and that education is a gift that we should not take lightly, but should persevere to the end, despite the "hiccups" that occur along the way. I married young, and when I did, I promised those around me that I would finish college. And I intended to, at that time. But life came, and hiccup. Two young adults trying to make it in the world, on their own, did not, in my case, allow for me to go to school. Hiccup. Work would come first then school would come at some point down the road. Then Charlotte came, and I started to return to school, but now two young adults and a new baby definitely didn't allow much time, or resources, for school. Hiccup. Then Joshua came too. And school was beckoning me. I knew that I needed to go back, for the promise I made to those I cherish, and for myself and my family. So the search began for a school to attend, and I came across Liberty. I sent for information and fell in love with the idea of a college teaching biblical values that I could attend from home on my own time. I have been so blessed to take courses in general education, psychology, education and bible learning from professors who wrote the textbooks, and who prayed for us and our successes. I am so proud to have been able to complete my studies there, and will miss it, but it is time to move on to more experiences. I am excited to begin Chapman in the fall as a credential student, and am considering the Master's Program as well, but that'll be for later. A HUGE thank you to all of you who have supported me through the last couple of years, (and longer) to get this done. I owe a lot of my success to my wonderful supportive husband who was more than willing to continue to work two jobs and watch the kids on the weekends while I completed homework or various projects. Thank you so much.

I have been coming across a lot of good ideas and inspirational things lately, I'm hoping to start blogging more about those kinds of things, but for now, we'll wait and see. I'm extremely busy right now with the end of this semester, and am hoping that in the next few weeks things will slow down a bit more and I'll have more time.

God Bless!

Monday, March 16, 2009

Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.

Alright, since I haven't done this in awhile and it is oh so much fun to air the things that I didn't do... grab a cup of something and a seat and enjoy the show.

Okay, I most certainly did not put off doing my math homework for 3 weeks, until the last possible day that it could be turned in, completely eating up the 1 week extension that was given to everyone because some people were having trouble submitting things.

I did not print out my graduation application for LU this week! And of course, I did not check my degree completion plan like 10 times making sure that I didn't miss something or they didn't change something... because, of course, they would be making changes to my file at 11pm our time (2 am Eastern Time).

I did not just put Charlotte in bed with me this morning to get a few more minutes of sleep while she "read" in bed with me and then finally get out of bed about an hour and a half later. (I really was not sleeping the whole time, we read books and talked about letters and such)

Of course, if I did do that, I absolutely would not blog about it.

I did not sign up Charlotte and Joshua for preschool today starting on Wednesday despite the fact that I currently have no work scheduled for the rest of this week, and honestly contemplate not taking a job and sending them to preschool anyway, just so that I can get some things done around the house and homework!

I also did not put Barney in the movie player tonight instead of putting the kids to bed, just so I could catch up on MckMama's blogs and her Not Me Monday posts.

I'm sure there are hundreds of other moments that I could blog about, but they are escaping me right now. I hope you enjoyed the show! Have a great week!

Monday, March 9, 2009

News on the Homefront...

It's been quite awhile since I blogged and I thought that I'd update you all if you still read this as to what is going on in our lives.

I'll start with myself, since most of the rest of everybody's news revolves around changes in me. I have completed the process to start substitute teaching. I actually had my first subbing job last Tuesday and have worked every day but today since then. I was scheduled to work today, but started feeling ill last night and it continued throughout the night so I called in sick this morning. I have loved it so far. It's been great experience and I am learning a lot about classroom management and keeping kids busy :) So far so good though. I also am finishing up my coursework for my Bachelor's degree. I have four courses I'm finishing this semester, and then 3 that I am taking during the summer. I actually just printed out my "Graduation Application" tonight and filled it out to submit in the next couple of weeks! I will be adding a second major to my degree meaning that I will have a Bachelor of Science degree in both Education and Psychology. I am so thrilled. I have also started researching different options for my credential program. Because of the current education crisis in California, the original plan of me going into a district intern program is not a good idea. I can't foresee school districts hiring a non-credentialed teacher when they are laying off teachers. In the meantime, I will work on getting my teaching credential and substitute teaching where and when I can, gaining experience and networking with schools, increasing my chances of getting hired when I am able to be.
All of that being said, Chris is changing his work hours to 4 days a week at A-1, and the other day he'll be at home with the kids in the morning. We will then have my dad stay with them for the couple hours in the afternoon. I will be working 4 days a week also, having a different day off so that I can finish up my year as the MOPS Co-Coordinator and then also taking care of the other things that pop up in life, (i.e., doctor's appointments, dentist appointments, school stuff, etc.). The rest of the week the kids will be starting preschool in the next few weeks. I am excited for them and they are excited about it. We have found a local christian preschool that is affordable and has open spaces for younger kids. Thankfully they are working with us on taking Joshua since he is not potty trained. They prefer to have them potty trained, but are making exceptions for us. We have been so blessed to have found this preschool and that there are spaces available.
We went to San Francisco a couple of weekends ago. It was a last minute trip down there to visit with Chris' grandparents and to get out of the house for awhile. We ended up going to the Aquarium of the Bay and had a blast. The kids really liked seeing all of the different fish and sharks and such. They got to touch a bat ray (like a sting ray) a leopard shark and some starfish and urchins. There was one bat ray that just kept swimming in circles up near the top of the water so that we could pet it. The kids were troopers through the whole day despite not getting a nap. Toward the end of the day Joshua started getting ornery but wasn't horrible.
Joshua and Charlotte peeking in the peepholes before going into the Aquarium of the Bay.One of the Bat Rays that we got to pet later on the tour.The Leopard Shark that Charlotte got to pet.Joshua "smelling" the flowers... or eating them... not sure which. :)Looking at the Sea Lions out on the pier.

My grandma is coming into town next weekend and I am over-the-moon excited about it! It has been about 2 years since she's been here and we miss her so much. I grew up with her around the corner from our house and I sure miss her now that she's down in Mexico. The last time she was here, Joshua was only 4 months old and Charlotte wasn't quite 2 yet. They both have grown up so much in that two years. My mom and I can't wait for her to see them and get to know them a little more. We have been telling Charlotte about it for a couple of weeks and she is excited too. She'll ask me periodically, "When is great Grammy coming??? Grammy's mommy. Grammy is mommy's mommy." She is too funny. We miss you Grandma and can't wait to see you!

That's about it for now. I'll write more later. I know I keep promising to write sooner, but life gets in the way. I'll try and write again soon!

Heidi and the rest of the Ramey Family!

Sunday, February 1, 2009

Thoughts and Life...

Life goes on as normal around here lately. Thus the reason for no real blogging going on around here.

I've started my second to last summer of undergraduate work. I'm so excited to be so close. I keep checking the status report thing that Liberty offers, just to make sure that I haven't made a mistake somewhere and am suddenly missing 20 credits or something. I know, a bit irrational, but it's all so exciting. I'm taking a teaching practicum class this semester, and I have the opportunity to go work in a friend's classroom 4 mornings per week. I'm learning so much, and it's been a lot of fun to get back into the classroom. I am looking at my options for the credential program. I think at this point I am planning on going to a Chapman University which will allow me to get my credential without having to drive an hour each way for classes because it is in Yuba City. I was planning on doing the Project Pipeline program which would allow me to get a job as a district intern teaching math as I work on my credential, but because of the current economic situation in California, I am not sure if that is the best direction to go anymore. I can't see a district jeopardizing their NCLB (No Child Left Behind) status to hire non-credentialed teachers when there may be an influx of credentialed teachers who are being laid off because of budget cuts to education. It's all very up in the air still, but I need to decide what I am going to do in the next couple of months.

Chris has been working on family and friends' computers in the last couple months. I think that he enjoys it and it gives him something to do while he's home for the weekends. I am so proud of him and everything that he accomplishes. I am so thankful that God has given me such a great husband who is willing to do what he can to help out around the house, oftentimes without my needing to ask. He's great about taking Char and Josh into the other room or outside to play while I work on homework over the weekends, and he pitches in around the house too. Thank you husband for all that you do for our family. Thank you Lord for such an amazing husband. I am so blessed.

Charlotte has been up to her usual antics lately. She is talking so much more and getting more and more personality. I went to pick her up from the childcare at the church the other night after my bible study and she started whining, when Gramma Suzie (the childcare director) asked her what was wrong, she started wiping away her imaginary tears and sniffling while she told Suzie that "I'm just so sad. I don't want to go home!" All she needed to do was pretend to faint for her Oscar in the category for most dramatic 3 year old. Then at dinner the other night, she was sitting in her chair and looked at Chris and I and said, "I'm so high!" Not what a mother wants to hear come out of the mouth of her child, no matter what age. Oh she makes me laugh.

Joshua is two. My baby is two! He is trying so hard to be like his sister and is so funny as he does it. He's starting to recognize that letters within words have a name, though most of the time, all of the letters are "o" or "u". He is also starting to recognize some of his colors. His favorites by far are "ello" and "dreen". Everything is either ello or dreen. He's so good-natured and easy going. He takes after Chris in that. It is my prayer that he continues to be so easy as he grows up, and that God would give Chris and I the wisdom to help him grow to be a man who represents God and lives for Him.

We just hooked our alarm system back up. We've had a couple things come up missing from the house and the other day we had a man "casing" our house. He asked what door we use as our front door, and because I'm home alone at night with the little ones, I feel more comfortable with that alarm. The same person who was casing our home came back the next morning and stole about 4 large garbage bags worth of recycling Chris and the guys at his work had collected for recycling. Thankfully the guys were understanding and Chris did give them most of what was left to recycle. It stinks though that it happened, and I hope that it is all over now.

I know that I keep saying this, but I am trying to make a conscious effort to blog more often. So much of the time I really have nothing new to share, so I keep quiet. I'm going to try and change that (not by having more to blog about, but rather to share what I've been learning in life, or share different insights that I've come across lately). So to start that off, I'll share a bit of insight I got last week from my mentor teacher at the elementary school. We are expecting a large tax refund this year and were talking about how we were going to spend it. Chris and I were discussing getting a new HDTV for our living room. However, I got sick a couple weeks ago and ended up going to the emergency room. Long story short, I ended up having a flu bug (the ER doc diagnosed it as a urinary tract infection) and a very large ER bill. We decided that a TV was not a necessity and that we should be adults and pay our bill rather than spend the money elsewhere (i.e., the new tv). Anyway, Renae (my mentor teacher) made a statement about the tv being a weed. When I looked at her, confused, she said, it's a want that isn't necessarily a need. I really liked the idea of needs and weeds in regards to the "stuff" that society feels that we should have. As a christian I need to be thankful for the things that God gives me, and a good steward of the resources that he entrusts to me. So, most of the refund will be going to bills and savings. We are planning on doing some things that are fun with it, though we're not quite sure what those are yet.

That's about all that is new around here. The kids are up from their naps, so I better get back to them and I need to start dinner. I hope that you are all blessed and I will update again soon!

God Bless!

The Rameys

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year to all of you and your families!

Just a quick update and popping in to say Hi. I've added the Twitter feature to my blog, so you can get bits and pieces of my day. I'm going to try and update it a few times a day, since that's a fun way to keep up with me.

I hope that your Christmas' went well and that you all got a chance to spend some time with family and friends. We're hanging out with Chris while he's off of work. We've enjoyed having him around a lot lately and are getting used to it. Too bad it will change after next week back to normal. *sigh*

Have a great day and be Blessed!

Heidi

Monday, December 15, 2008

Wow.

Wow. 9 days until Christmas. Already! Where has the time gone. I am feeling so blessed this year, and am thankful that I am able to recognize it, and appreciate it. I know that there are so many others out there that aren't as blessed as we are, and I pray that they find comfort wherever they may be and know that there is One who loves them and desires to know each and every one. Wow.

I'm writing this as I should be preparing for my MOPS meeting tomorrow, but as usual, I'm procrastinating, and popped in here to catch all of you up and check out the comments that people have left. I was disappointed that someone chose to anonymously post some comments that aren't helpful in any way. Wow. I suppose that is your options, or was, as I've changed my settings to no longer allow anonymous settings. My fault for trusting in the first place. Those of you who have put helpful comments, I pray that you know how encouraging they are.

And a big Wahoo! I'm done with school this semester. I will start back on the 12th of January. I did fairly well this semester, though it kicked my behind to get it all done. I'm within 30 units now of getting my B.S. degree (28 units to be exact) and I should be done this summer if everything stays on track. I have two math classes left to take to fulfill my "requirements" the rest is simply elective courses that will probably be made up of education, psychology and theology classes because I learn the most from them. Woo! (Sorry, not much to wow there.)

I went and got the application packet to start substitute teaching today. I'm waiting for them to get back to me, because Sutter County seems to require a Bachelor's degree, where as there is a credential that you can get as a prospective teacher that will allow you to sub with less than that. So I'm waiting to hear if they'll accept me or not. I will be majorly bummed if they won't. It's an insanely expensive and time consuming process to go through to get just a substitute credential. It's slightly more than 200 dollars once you throw in the fingerprinting fees, license fees and other various fees that are associated with the process. My jaw almost hit the floor when I realized that. (WOW!!!) I'm confident however that God will provide the money though, and am trusting that I will be allowed to go where He wants me.

I sincerely want to thank all of you who have supported me over the last year and a half as I've been doing this. All of your encouraging words and helpful advice, offers to help in any way, have been MUCH appreciated and I am so humbled by your kind words and thoughts. I ask that you would continue to pray us through this journey as I'm terrified of what's to come. I've never been afraid before, but the farther I get into the process, and the realization that I will be responsible for students on my own, and the vast amount of responsibility and weight that carries, is feeling slightly overwhelming to me right now. Please continue to offer that up for us. We do so greatly appreciate it.

As for the rest of the family, everyone is doing well. Joshua celebrates his second birthday next week (WOW!). He is talking more and more, and is definitely getting his own opinions. He and Charlotte are beginning to fight more too. It's great fun! Most of the time I let them work it out themselves, however, I do intervene if it goes seriously awry. It's so fun to watch them grow and learn to love each other, and those around them. Charlotte has decided that it is her job to help tuck Joshua in bed each night. The three of us (and daddy when he's home) kneel at the foot of Joshua's bed, we pray and then give kisses all around. Charlotte has been the last to kiss Joshua lately then, she tells him goodnight and shuts off the light and closes the door. It's so sweet. She loves him so much. He lights up in the morning when he sees her too, so I know the feeling is mutual. (Wow!)

Chris is working so hard to provide for our family. I am so humbled by his willingness to continue to work two jobs, even telling me that if I need to take the summer off and finish my school in the fall semester (I'm not going to), that he's willing to continue to work so that I can stay home as long as I want. I'm so blessed. Beyond blessed. I thank the Lord that He has given me such an amazing partner for life. I definitely didn't/don't deserve it. (Wow!)

That's about all from here. I pray that you all have a wonderful Christmas. Spend some time with your loved ones, and know that Christ came for you, because He loves you. Spend some time with Him this season as well. He wants to know you more.

Saturday, December 6, 2008

Reflections on Mary...

December. Cold. Damp. Still. Quiet. Yet, in it all, there is a celebration being prepared in Heaven. The angels are preparing for the Messiah's birth. The promised one.
A 14 year old girl has been chosen to carry the Christ-child. How scared she must have been, yet so full of wonder and hope as well. I was 24 when I had my daughter, and I know how scared I was, I can't imagine being 10 years younger, and having God's Son.

As I sit here now, in my bed, snuggled up in a heated house, I think about Mary traveling on the back of a donkey, 9 months pregnant. I never made it that far with either of my kids, yet I know how miserable those last weeks can be in the comforts of the modern ages, let alone 2000 years ago. Was it cold? Was she having labor pains the whole time she was walking to Bethlehem? Was she excited? Scared? Confident? Confused? Lonely? At peace?

I remember being pregnant with Joshua this time of year and found myself fascinated with Mary. I tried to imagine what she must have been going through feeling the child inside of her as she traveled to Bethlehem. Was she uncomfortable? Or did God spare her that? What was Jesus like to raise? Ha, I imagine he was the quintessential "perfect child" in that he was fully God. The Bible says that he never sinned, and was a pure and spotless lamb. I wonder if that means he never threw his food on the floor, or stayed up half of the night and then was cranky in the morning?

I think I'm going to have to find a study on Mary over the next few weeks. I'm in awe of her strength and faith. To be 14, betrothed, and to know that the child she carried was the Christ-child, yet also know she could be stoned to death for being pregnant before she had been in the marriage bed with her husband. I desire for my heart to beat the same way. To say "Lord, I'm here" whenever He calls for whatever He wants.

May God be with you all this Christmas season. Know that I am praying for each of you to find Him and to be in His will this Christmas. Please join me in welcoming Jesus this Christmas, into your home, into your heart and into every part of your being. Know that He loves you, and desires to become intimate with you.

God Bless You!
Heidi

Monday, November 24, 2008

We've got a new family member!



Congratulations Ashley and Alex! Welcome to the world James! Auntie Heidi, Uncle Chris, Cousins Charlotte and Joshua love you! (P.S. We're you're favorite!)

Monday, November 17, 2008

Not Me Monday



This is my first Not Me Monday! I came across this idea at MckMomma's blog and I love it. You can check it out by clicking on the button above. ('m hoping this works!)

So here it is. I did not do these things! You can't make me own up to them!

I did not have rice krispy treats for dinner last night since we had a bible study and were not frantically trying to clean house enough so that people would not see how messy it gets.

I did not put on a movie this morning because I wasn't ready to get up with the kids, so I absolutely did not snooze on the couch with them watching the movie!

I did not put off homework again this week, to the weekend, knowing full well it is due Sunday night, then panic because I was running out of time!

I did not cry this morning when I realized that on top of the cold I have, I am now on my period too! (Blah!)

I totally did not just admit that I'm on my period for the whole internet world to read!

I was not secretly glad that none of our regulars were here for bible study last night. I love you all, but I felt like junk!

That's about all my "Not Me's" for today. I'll post more later if I can come up with them. This is fun and I love reading some of the ones out there that you can find on MckMomma's blog!

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Choose more...

I have begun helping out with the senior high youth at our church. This is something I feel like I've been called to do for awhile, and it's a small part that I can help connect with some young people, make a difference, and it doesn't take much preparation, other than getting the kids and I ready and there on time. I really enjoy meeting the youth, and since I'm planning on teaching this age group, it's a great fit. Kathy, our youth secretary, spoke tonight, and she really touched my heart. She was my inspiration for this blog, and the "change I want to be!"

Any time I tell someone that I'm planning on teaching middle/high school age kids, they tell me I'm crazy. Why is that? I'll tell you why I think it is. I think this world has gotten a hold of the word teenager and twisted it and changed it to be something that many teenagers are not. The world expects teens to do drugs, be disrespectful, skip school, have sex, break laws, have abortions, rebel, curse, and the list goes on and on. I'm not naive enough to say that teens don't do these things. But I, as Kathy did tonight, pose the thought that, perhaps they do these things because that's what we expect out of them. Brian Tracy once said, "Whatever we expect with confidence, becomes our own self-fulfilling prophecy."

Is this what God calls us to though? Did God mean for us to limit our youth and future generations to this type of behavior? I think not. There are tons of examples in the Bible of young people stepping above the expectations of their time to achieve God's will and plan for themselves and the nations around them. Kathy spoke of three people tonight: George, Clara and David. George was an 11 year old who was incredibly proficient in math, and became a surveyor at a young age. At the age of 12 he became ward to his younger brother when his father died. Successful, he ended up becoming the first President of the United States. That's right, George Washington. Clara, was accomplished in dealing with medical care. At a young age, she founded the American Red Cross. David, at the age of 11 went on his first voyage across the oceans. At 12 he was given the position of Captain of the ship. When one of his shipmates challenged him, he took it in stride, and threatened the man with his life if he continued his rebellion. The man never came back up to challenge the David. David Farragut was his name, and he was an Admiral in the US Navy in 1812.

On the way home tonight, I started considering what society expects of me, and what I expect of myself. Is it aligned with what God expects of me? Probably not. The world's expectations of me are far different than God's. Sure, both the world and God expect me to follow the laws, treat others fairly, etc. But the world expects me to look a certain way, listen to a certain music, accept popular culture, and be okay with the rampant sin that exists in this world. God, however, has a very different view. He expects me to trust in Him, believe in Him as my Savior, and turn away from what the world has to say/think. He is my Father and truly wants what is best for me. The world may say that they do, but I know that is only as long as I give something in return.

So, I pose this question... what are your expectations for yourself? For the youth of our society? I was asked tonight, what I would change if I could change anything in the world. My answer to that would be that I would change people's views of the youth. So I'm starting here. Thank you for reading this, and I pray that you would take a minute and get to know a young person around you. To really open yourself up to them, and get to know them. I don't mean just hang out with them once per week, but to really get involved in their life. Check out the things that they are into, see the world from their eyes, because I guarantee you will be changed. There are some amazing young people out there, and I pray that you will have an impact in their greatness.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

What's new in the Ramey Household

Nothing. Really... there's nothing new.

Charlotte is the same. She got to spend the night at Grammy's a few weeks ago, which was a first. She absolutely loved it, and is still talking about it. She got to play with Papa and his microphone as he recorded her singing songs. Absolutely adorable! I felt kind of lost without her, as it was weird only having one child to look after and be responsible for. We enjoyed some time together with Aunt Sandra and Uncle Bryan and the cousins at dinner, then had to run by the store, but after that, we just hung out at home and then went to bed. He did get a little time in the morning with me which was nice. Plus he got to sleep in (which meant I got to sleep in), since his sister wasn't there to wake him up.

Joshua's toe healed nicely (I may have mentioned this in the last blog...) He looks mostly normal, though that toe is pointy in one spot for some reason. Unless you look closely you can't really even tell. I can't believe he'll be two in about 2 months. Time flies!

We took our annual trip to Bishop's Pumpkin Farm this past weekend. Charlotte was so excited to be going to the "punka match". She got to play all over the trains, and farm equipment, jump in the hay, pet animals, ride on the hay ride, pick out her very own pumpkin (our requirement was that they had to be able to carry it themselves!), and watch the pig races! Great fun!

That's about it from this neck of the woods. Like I said, there's not much new here. I hope and pray that everyone who reads this is doing well and is happy and healthy. Know that we love you and are praying for you.

Monday, September 29, 2008

6 weeks?!?!?

It's been 6 weeks since I blogged last?!? What have I been doing?!? Answer: Life. Everything, and nothing all in the same time. I can't believe that much time has gone by without word from me! I'm so sorry.

Joshua's toe is almost healed. It looks much better, and the nail is growing back just fine. I'm so relieved and thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. He just got a hair cut last week and I think it changed him. He's grown up all of a sudden. Even "Gramma" Suzie (the childcare director at church) commented on how big he got all of a sudden. He's also started making all kinds of goofy faces. Cracks me up. He's great. I love this age.

Charlotte is officially a big girl now. She's potty trained!!!! We aren't quite to the overnight stage yet, but we are fully potty trained for the day. Yay!!! That cut my diaper bill in half! I'm so excited to be changing fewer diapers, but she has not gotten the concept of going all at once, so in the hour and 45 minute class today, we made three trips to the bathroom... ugh!

We started a school readiness program today. I'm not sure how I feel about it yet, we'll go another day this week, maybe Wednesday or Thursday. Joshua gets to go too and learn and play while the moms get to visit and help out. It is a parent co-op kind of thing, which is interesting, but we'll see how it goes. It was good to see a friend from my MOPS group there, so there was at least 1 familiar face.

Sandra and Bryan have moved in with us, until they find a place and get settled here. It's exciting to be so close to my niece and nephew, and great to really get to know Sandra and Bryan. When everyone else is in Utah, we would only see them for short times, so it's been great to have them here. Trying at times, but great none the less.

Chris is just getting over bronchitis. He started feeling sick Sunday of last week, and by Wednesday when he went to the doctor, he was diagnosed with bronchitis and the beginning stages of pneumonia. So, he was off all week pretty much since he took Part of Monday evening off, then all of Tuesday through Friday. By Thursday and Friday I was ready to send him back to work. I teased that it would be better for his health for him to go back to work rather than stay home :P

I'm finishing up my first set of classes for this semester. I have this week and next week, then I'm finished with this set. The next grouping I have 4 classes instead of 3, so it'll be a bit more work, but worth it in the end. Then I get to apply for my substitute credentials! I'm terrified and excited at the same time. We're looking at childcare options now for what to do with the kiddos while we're at work. I think right now we're considering finding a preschool/daycare setting 3 days per week and then one of us will be home the other two. We'll get it figured out, but daycare is pricey! We're looking at nearly 800 dollars per month for 3 days per week.

That's about all for now. Will write more soon. (I hope...)

Heidi

Friday, August 15, 2008

What a week!

Hi all!

What a week we've had. I got back from my retreat, feeling relaxed and energized, and that feeling is pretty much gone now. I realize that it is Friday, and that another weekend is here, but it's been a heck of a week.

On a positive note, my cousin Ricky and his wife Tiffany had their little boy on Wednesday. Steven Matthew was born in the early afternoon. Congratulations Ricky and Tiffany! I'm so excited for you both.

Thursday was a day from hell with Charlotte. She's so ... well.... three. She had a rough day yesterday, and it started in the morning and just continued throughout the day, until she went to bed last night. I fell into bed shortly after her, absolutely exhausted, mentally, physically and emotionally drained from being with her all day. It's days like that, when though I cherish being home with them and the opportunity that has been given to me to stay home, but it's days like that when I'm ready to go back to work. I know I'll have days like that at work too though, so I don't think I'm getting out of anything by escaping to work, but the endless whine has been getting on my nerves lately.

This morning, as I was sitting down to work a bit on my newsletter, the kids were playing with some benches (they're used as end tables, but are really more like barstools) and pushing them around the house. Well, somehow, I didn't see it, Joshua knocked one over on himself, and broke his big toe, nearly severing the tip of it off. Chris said that he could see the bone! (Gross!) We rushed him to the E.R., and they sewed it back on. He should heal perfectly, but we'll have to see. He's not one to wear socks/shoes (he will take his shoes off in the car), so this could be interesting with him having a bandage on his foot. We've got a sock on it right now, but we'll see how he does. I'm not sure what else to do for the poor little guy. He was pretty sad about it all, and screamed while they were numbing it to get the stitches, but as soon as they got it numb, he went to sleep and slept through that whole procedure. Talk about a blessing from God, that they didn't have to fight him over the whole deal. The student nurses were amazed. He goes to see a podiatrist on Monday, then next Saturday will have the stitches out. *sigh* this boy is going to kill me with his adventurous spirit. He's so, boy.

We are going to the State Fair tomorrow. I'm pretty excited about getting to go. It should be fun. Hot. But fun nonetheless. The Doodlebops are coming (for those of you with kids), so we'll see them, and explore all the other fun areas. Joshua is going to be a challenge I have a feeling, because he'll want to run and play, and I'm not sure he'll be able to. May have to come up with some sort of sandle/shoe thing for him. Hmmm... I'll have to think about that.

Anyway, I'll write more later. We see the podiatrist on Monday, so we'll know more after that. Love and hugs to everyone!

Monday, August 4, 2008

Wedding Pictures... so far...

I've been editing all morning, I still have a whole lot to go, but I figured I'd put some of these up to give you all a taste! Chris did a great job! I told him that he should start doing some side work and take a class or two to hone his skills! Enjoy!

























Monday, July 28, 2008

More Pictures

Charlotte and Joshua at Marilyn & Papoo's house, she was getting ready to give him a kiss.
Joshua as Charlotte was getting closer to kissing her brother. I adore this picture.
Charlotte would go sit on Papoo's lap, but Joshua wouldn't. He's still a bit stranger-shy.
This is Papoo and Marilyn's adopted daughter Kim who is getting married the weekend after SuAnne and Jason. I've known her since she was about 12, I can't believe she's getting married!
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Utah Trip So far...

The bride, SuAnne, as we were working on favors, she was just watching! Okay, let me rephrase that, SuAnne was doing quality control as Jason was cutting candles to put into shotgun shells, to be used as favors, which I was tying rafia and charms to.
Jason, on the phone on the way to Clearfield to see Marilyn and Papoo (Chris' grandpa and his wife). I love this picture of him.
SuAnne in the "thinker" pose, watching Jason on the phone. This is so typical Su.
Joshua in the car on the way to visit Marilyn and Papoo. He was tired.
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Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Reflections on life...


I'm honestly in some sort of funk tonight, and as such, thought I'd blog a bit about my life and the things that are going on.

My good friend Kristina had brain surgery this morning. She went to the optometrist a couple of weeks ago because she had been having a lot of headaches and through several trips to her regular doctor, and no success she figured that she needed new glasses. God had ordained that trip. She was scheduled for an appointment at around 4:30, but was in town and figured she'd give the optometrist's office a call, because she wasn't feeling well and wanted to go home, to see if they could squeeze her in. They did, and the optometrist looked at her and referred her to an opthamologist, immediately. Like she was to go straight to the opthamologist's office. He looked at her and said that there was a major problem and that he was going to refer her to a neurosurgeon. To make a long story somewhat shorter, she had an MRI last Monday, a spinal tap on Friday, and then went in for the results yesterday. While at that appointment, they told her they were not going to let her go home, and that she was going to have surgery last night. That didn't happen afterall and she went in this morning. Thankfully everything is okay and she is recovering now. They removed a tumor from the lower ventricle of her brain and put in a shunt to help with drainage. So she's recovering now and we're thankful that God had her in his hands all along and orchestrated the best care possible for her.

I recently found out that my sister in law is going to make me an aunt again. James Alex is due sometime around Thanksgiving. So that is going to be fun. I've been working hard to get the dresses done in time for SuAnne's wedding (not the sister-in-law who's having the baby) on the 2nd of next month. We leave a week from Friday to head out to Utah for 10 days. I'm ready for a vacation. I'm hoping that we'll have some time to go sightseeing and see somewhere new while we're out there. Should be fun.

I've been reading a blog that has me amazed at this family's strength in trials. Audrey Caroline Blog I love how honest and heartfelt her writing is, and I have laughed and cried along with her. Warning, if you do go read it, take a box of tissues. She has an amazing talent with words and I can't wait to read it when she posts. We have a friend who is going through a similar problem with her pregnancy and I was able to connect the two ladies, and I"m so glad that it has given our friend hope and strength to just read the words that Angie writes. Beautiful.

I wish I had something profound to update you all with. In truth it's just been pretty much every day life around here. Still now potty training. I'm wrapping up my summer classes. I did drop my biology class, because I was essentially failing it and didn't want that ugly mark on my transcript. I learned that you can't fake a biology class, and you certainly can't do it in a shortened time period. So, if I need to take one, it'll have to be over a full semester sometime. We'll see. I think I'm okay without it though. I will have to pick up a single unit somewhere this semester (probably through Yuba College) though, in order to keep on track with substitute teaching this spring. I'm so excited and yet a bit anxious about that. I think it's part of the whole change thing, and knowing that it is something I've worked so long for, and dreamed about for even longer, and it's finally here. It's almost like I'm giving birth for the first time again. I have doubts and questions over whether or not I'm really ready, and if I can do this, and all the what ifs. It's a bit nervewracking, and exciting at the same time. I'm not even sure that I really experienced it like this when I was pregnant with Charlotte, because she really didn't give me that option, arriving so early.

We've been working on Joshua's room this past weekend. (Thanks mom!) I'm totally in love with all that's been done. It's still a work in progress, but you can see what we've done so far. (okay, we've really done more than this, but I forgot to take pictures again today).






I love it! It's so fun and kid friendly. Joshua loves it too. He spent his first night in his room the other night, and I heard him chattering to himself for a good half hour before he went to sleep. I'm sure he was talking to the sheep and the airplane and all of the rest of the characters and things in there. I'll share more pictures when it's done!

I hope this finds everyone well. Know that we love you and are praying for you all.

Monday, June 23, 2008

Bad Heidi...

I'm getting really bad about keeping this updated. I think it may have something to do with MOPS, VBS, School, kids, homework, church, sleeping, being a wife, and whatever else I commit to!

So not much new here, just life in general. We have a friend who is getting married on Saturday! Yay Heather & Brian! I'm so excited for the both of you and can't wait to share in your special day. Speaking of weddings, we're getting ready to go back out to Utah next month for SuAnne's wedding. I still have to finish both Charlotte and my dress, Charlotte's is going to be easier to finish, but I just haven't done it yet. I just need to put the zipper in and hem the thing, I just haven't done it. I keep telling myself that I have time still, but I know that soon I won't be able to say that. I'll procrastinate like normal and say... maybe tomorrow.

School is going well. I have three rather difficult classes this summer as I'm taking Political Science (Government), Social Psychology and Biology all at the same time and during a shortened time frame. Fun! So that's taking a lot of my time right now. It really will be a vacation when we go out because I finish my last day of school the day after we leave for Utah. Woo! Then I start back again in August at Liberty. I'm getting excited and a bit nervous to be quite honest. It's always been something that's in the future and now it's getting really close, and I can see the end of school for me and being able to be a teacher and have my own classroom and such. Yay!!!

We're still working on potty training Charlotte. We've figured out that she can hold it. And she can hold it lots. We had her diaperless all weekend pretty much (She wore a diaper at naptime and when we went to church Saturday night, and then during bedtimes, and she only peed in the toilet twice with no accidents. Boy can that girl hold it! Ugh! But we're getting somewhere because she did pee in the potty twice. Yay!!!

That's about all that's new here, I just wanted to check in and say Hi! We're all doing well and life is busy as we know it. I'll write again soon.

Heidi

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Busy Bees

Even though my kids aren't in school, I'm finding that we are increasingly busy now that school is out. I have no idea how it's possible, but as evidenced by my lack of posting lately, we've been full of activities.

I registered for my classes in the last hour, for the fall semester. I will be taking 2 psychology classes (Psychology of Adolescence, and The Exceptional Child) and 4 education classes (2 Instructional Practices classes, one for math and one for reading, and a classroom management class, and a educational philosophy class). I'm actually really looking forward to it. It'll be nice to get classes that are beneficial to my degree and should be really interesting. I figured I should take the classroom management and instructional practices classes before I start substitute teaching in the spring. Perhaps it'll help me be a better substitute teacher, so that I won't have those nightmare classes.

Chris has changed his schedule around a bit. Since many of the guys at the school district wanted to work in the mornings, Chris had to go along with it. They wouldn't let him and another guy work their normal shift. So he is working from 6:00 - 2:30 at the school then from 3:00 - about 7:00 at A-1. It means that he is home earlier, but he's gone all day, without a break in between like he had been getting. About the time we get used to this new schedule he's going to have to go back when school starts again to the working evenings for the school and not getting home until 10:30. We'll figure it out though.

Charlotte's birthday is Saturday. I can't believe that 3 years ago was my baby shower and little did I know that my daughter would be here 3 days later. I've been thinking hard about those hours, days and weeks shortly after her birth, and how hard they were, going back and forth to Sacramento daily, and sometimes a couple times per day. (Thank God gas was cheaper then!) I knew she was in the best place she could be, but it was so unnatural to have a baby and have to leave her behind while you went home. I remember crying the entire way home from Sacramento, and those difficult rides to and from. I am so thankful for the people who were able to help drive back and forth and came to visit during that time. You truly were a blessing to us, more than you know. I am so thankful that the Lord gave us Kerri as Charlotte's nurse the night she was born. My best friend Kati's sister had just recently gotten a job in the NICU at Mercy San Juan, and little did we know that she would be the one who would welcome and hold Charlotte before we would. Thank you Lord that your hand was in that even when we were sure we wouldn't need the NICU, or see Kerri. Lots of memories, of great nurses, laughs at our sweet girl and the joy she brought the nurses, lots of tears shed each time I thought too much or had to leave, worries that something would go wrong, and excitement for each hurdle she cleared. I'm so proud of her each day, and amazed at how she is continuing to defy the "premature baby" status that was given to her because she was born early. I'm happy to report that she's meeting and exceeding the developmental goals for children her age, and though she may be short (hello? Seen her mommy?), she's on track physically as well. Take that brain bleed! You may have scared me 2 days after she was born, but you don't scare me now! My God is bigger! Thank you Lord for your wisdom and guidance as I raise this daughter you've given me. I pray that you will continue to guide me and give me patience as she is strong willed and stubborn. Thank you for the spunk and life you've given her spirit and may she take those gifts you've given her and use them for Your glory!

Joshua is starting to talk more and more. He's got 6 official teeth now! Woo!!! He's almost 18 months old already! Where'd my baby go? He's rough and tumble, full of life, all boy, and such a sweet cuddler when he's tired. He gives me big hugs, tells me he loves me and loves to give slobbery kisses. He knows what he wants, and will do what he can to get it, whether charm the pants off of you, or will throw a full on throw himself on the ground temper tantrum.

That's about all from this end. I'll post more later. We finally got the living room and dining room painted. So I'll try and get pictures tomorrow. I know I've been promising them forever, perhaps I'll do it this time :P

Heidi

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

It's been nearly forever.

So it's been nearly forever since I last updated everyone on how things are going in our lives. So here's some updates.

The House: I had grand plans this past weekend to get lots and lots done around the house. Unfortunately God had a different plan and gave us a BEAUTIFUL weekend so I didn't want to get any housework done. We did finish the bathroom (okay, so we still need to caulk the trim and touch up the ceiling). So I can put a done stamp on that one. I've painted the trim in the dining room, but that's about it as far as work on the house goes. I'm frustrated that it's taking so long, but at the same time I want to spend time with my husband when he's home that is not painting or working on the house. Hmmm... guess I'll have to get over that one, or we're never going to get anything done on this place.

We got a kitten! She is super cute and her name is Lina. We have a sort of tradition in our family (thanks Joe!) to name our cats something that begins with the word cat. Joe began it all with Strophic (Catastrophic) and we continued it with Maran (Catamaran) who now lives with my parents, and now we've continued the journey with Lina (Catalina). I was also thinking Clysmic (cataclysmic... you get the idea) but couldn't see my self yelling it when she did something bad. Lina just sounds so much more girly and somewhat normal. (Why am I worried about normal cat names?) I'll post pictures of her one of these days. She's quite the fluffball.

Charlotte: Charlotte will be three in three weeks. She is talking so much more and you can actually understand a lot more now. I"m continually amazed that God is so gracious, and despite her difficult beginning, he has blessed us with a perfectly normal child who is so full of life and spunk. Truly amazing to think of her journey into the world so early and how she struggled for breath on her first days here, now we can't get her to sit down for five minutes. I'm continually humbled by it all.

Joshua: Joshua is working on catching up with his big sister in everything she does. He's so confident and fearless. He was standing on the top of the stepladder we have (it's only two steps, quit freaking out!) and trying to jump up and down. When I told him to get down because he may fall he shook his head at me and told me no! Then a bit later he came out of the hallway with Lina in arms upside down and being squished. Poor kitty. (I'm waiting for Charlotte to put her in the baby stroller and take her "baby" for a walk.) He cracks me up, and is so fond of eating it's not funny. Don't mess with that boy and his food.

Chris: works so hard for this family. I am so proud of him and all that he does. I am so fortunate that he is willing to work so hard for me to be able to go to school and stay home. I keep reminding myself that I need to work hard to make him proud and so that I can get finished so that he can stay home more. After I get my substitute credential, he can quit working for A-1 in the mornings to stay home with the kids while I'm working. Thank you Chris for being the Godly man that you are and I pray that you will be blessed by Him in your work. He has also taken on repairing computers lately. Last year (in 2007) I bought my laptop with our tax return, with the promise that Chris could build his the following year. So all year, he spent hours (and I do mean hours) researching parts and products and all the stuff that goes with it. Finally, we got our tax return this year and he built his computer. I was so looking forward to not having to hear about this part or that program. While we were waiting for it to ship and arrive my laptop died, and after figuring out that he couldn't fix it (it was a motherboard problem under warranty and recall) he sent it out for repair. Fast forward a month or so, laptop is back, new computer is put together and my laptop cord won't work anymore. Here comes the part research again. So part ordered, laptop fixed. Fast forward about another month or so and my parents computer dies. Meanwhile Chris has been working with my dad on several of his computer projects, and casually mentions to my parents that he could build them a better computer than they could get from Wal-Mart for about the same price. So here goes the research again... ugh! Anyway, now that's been bought, put together and he's also worked on Joe's computer and is currently sitting next to me trying to put my laptop together again. (He took it apart about two weeks ago because the cord stopped working again... and now he can't remember for sure how it goes back together :P LOL)

My turn? I finished up the spring semester with Liberty. I registered for some summer classes online and a tv class at Yuba College (so much cheaper than LU, when I don't have financial aid to pay for the classes). I am enjoying a few weeks off between them and yet I'm excited to get back so that I can work some more on getting it all done. I applied for a position with Sutter County Schools last week. There are two part time positions open that have flexible schedules (they're only 10 and 12.5 hours per week) and I hope to hear from them soon. I am no longer watching the Lee kids in the mornings which has been nice to only have my two kids, but it is kind of stressful financially. I am confident though that God won't leave us stranded financially. He has blessed us so much with this house and the things we have to take them away. (Not that he couldn't if it was his plan).
Now that I've written a novel, I'm going to close this post. I will post pictures of the new kitty this week (hopefully) and will write more later.

God Bless!